Why You Must Put Yourself First
Learning to put myself first has been my most important and challenging life lesson. I personally feel like it will be a lifelong lesson for me. I’m not saying that I am relearning the same lesson because the lesson of putting myself first, just as with any lesson acts like a tree with hundreds of roots.
I know that putting yourself first is something we label as selfish. But the truth is the person we abuse the most is ourselves. The person that we disrespect, neglect, criticize is by far ourselves. We do this because we feel we are not good enough as we are. So we replace the lack we perceive within ourselves by trying to attain accolades in the outside world so we can mask the ugliness we are afraid to find from within.
But the truth is when we remove all the accolades, achievements, goals, dreams and visions, all that is left is our naked self. And that is when we see our real beauty. A beauty that surpasses the beauty we are so desperately trying to attain.
You will definitely want to listen to this powerful podcast about me sharing how I’ve come to heal myself to make this realization. You hear me explore and connect to the beauty within so you can learn how to connect to the beauty within you. You will also see me coach myself as I go into the deep hidden corners of my subconscious by exploring my feelings around this topic.